BDN - Kinks

Straitjackets are my main fetish. I'm absolutely nuts about them. There is just something so fascinating and satisfying about this tight and relentless embrace of a canvas straitjacket, forcing you into a self-hug, not being able to get out on your own.

They are very powerful restraints, and thanks to the design still easily and quickly applicable. Thanks to the somewhat natural position of the arms, they are also some of the most comfortable restraints, which means, that they can be worn for relatively long time periods, probably only beaten by the sleepsack.

For me, there are some important things, though: Arm loops in the front and sides and at least one crotch strap. Everything less is not secure enough.

In terms of material, I'm mostly interested in canvas straitjackets. I have never tried a leather or latex straitjacket, but I have to say, I like the clean, white look of a canvas one.

Like straitjackets, sleepsacks are very comfortable, immobilizing, and quickly put on. That's a big plus for me. The arm position is even more natural than that of a straitjacket, which should allow some wearers to stay even longer in them.

Even though a sleespack covers and restrains even the legs of the wearer, my rating is slightly below the straitjacket. It's probably mainly because I've only worn a sleepsack once, and that one did't fit well, it was too long for me, so it didn't feel as good as expected.

I've never tried a chastity device, but I'm really curious about wearing it in a bondage session or between for a shorter amount of time.

Very effective and escape proof. I have never tried wearing one, but I imagine wearing one has to be very uncomfortable, especially for a person like me, who is inflexible.

I enjoy looking at armbinder pictures, but I think, the fact that I picture it being uncomfortable makes me enjoy them less than straitjacket pictures.

Like with other things, I'm mostly interested in gags that are designed to be secure and easy to apply. Like ball gags, muzzle gags (even with harness around the head), but no cloth gags. I'm a bit too scared about the cloth slipping down my throat.

Muzzle gags have also a benefit of making the mouth completely useless as a tool.

Something about the thought of a hood completely encasing my head and applying a bit of pressure from all sides excites me.

I'm a fan of human technology and science achievements. Like a hygienic toilet that quickly gets rid of your waste. Thinking about wearing your waste (be it urin or worse) on your body for a certain period of time disgusts me.

Having to wear a full diaper would be torture for me, because I have a very sensitive sense of smell. And it probably wouldn't feel nice, either. The only reason why I would remotely think about wearing a diaper is, if I really need one for an upcoming long-term bondage session. But on the other hand, no. I don't want that.

Because lots of bondage enthusiasts also are diaper lovers, I've sorta gotten used to seeing them in pictures. As long as I know, that they are not full, I'm kinda okay with it.

Eh, it's okay, It does its job, but I don't have the patience for that. Also, the effectiveness depends on the skill of the rigger, I prefer the type of gear that can be applied quickly and easily.

I've never tried one, but heard that they can greatly enhance the feeling of an orgasm. Looks like I'm gonna have to give this one a try one day.

There is something special about shiny latex tightly encasing a body. It's like a second artificial skin.

Even though I don't like nudity, I'm able to enjoy the curves of a female body, when it's completely encased in latex.

Urine, blood, cum, saliva... It's basically stuff that grosses me out. I don't wanna see (or be part of) that, or situations that bring that stuff out.

Sweat itself is kinda meh, but it can't really be avoided, when the session involves heavy enclosing restraints (which heat you up) or latex (which doesn't breathe).

Also known as shit, the biological waste of the human body, it stinks and it's unhygienic.

I'm asexual. The look of genitals (no matter, which type) make me very uncomfortable. I don't want to see them. The less skin is visible, the less I dislike it.

The look of female breasts was also problematic for me, I still dislike it a bit to look at them, when they're naked, but it was way worse in the past. The chances are still there that I won't like a bondage picture with naked boobs, because it's just a turn-off for me.

Tatoos, Piercings, Implants and other permanent stuff. Under no circumstances will I accept a body modification.

I'm a very sensitive person in general. Pain is hard to bare for me, and even small amounts of it get unpleasant very quickly.

Respect is an important part of my life. For both, giving and receiving.

I've been bullied heavily in school, from a lot of people, over the course of multiple years. I don't need humiliation again, thank you.

Sensory deprivation alone is kinda boring to me, but that's not how it's usually used. It really starts to shine together with bondage, a situation where you can't remove the blindfold, hood or whatever takes away your senses.

Comfortable bondage itself (like my frequently used straitjacket) is pure bliss for me, and I often get into it when I'm going to sleep. Laying in the dark, silent room is basically like sensory deprivation. It's a nice feeling to feel the mercyless embrace of my restraints and let my thoughts drift away. Of course, a nice hood would probably enhance the situation.

Normally I hate tickling, but I think, that being tickled in a straitjacket positively reinforces the feeling of being successfully trapped. I can't say that for sure, because it never happened to me. I might try it under the right circumstances.

No vanilla sex, no oral, no anal (or any other kind, just to close the loop hole).

I'm asexual. Genitals and body fluids gross me out. Sex is a combination of both. Just no.

I know, it feels wonderful, but there are some catches. First of all, the mess it produces is disgusting to me. Second, I consider it as a very private and intimate act. The very negative rating assumes that it's in a setting with other people.

There's probably only one situation, where an orgasm in company with others will be okay for me: Me being bound, unable to relief myself, but very turned on. Only with a vibrator through clothes. And only if I wear something like latex underpants, which prevent the liquid from seeping into the rest of my clothing.

Similar to rope, you need some patience to get the job done. But in contrast to ropes which only cover narrow parts of the body, mummification works on a big area. It distributes forces evenly and ideally applies soft pressure all around the body. That's basically one of the reasons, I like straitjackets and sleepsacks so much.